We utilize several different evidence-based approaches for sleep training in our practice, so Extinction (what some refer to as “cry-it-out”) is not the only approach we use. During your consultation appointment, we will provide you with a lot of education about sleep and work to obtain a better understanding of your goals and parenting philosophies. We will then go over the pros and cons of various approaches with you, and we may recommend which approach we think will work best for your family based on the information you provide. However, you will ultimately make the call on which method you’d like to implement with your child. Our goal is for you to be able to apply the plan consistently, as this is the best predictor for how much improvement people see because of the treatment. As such, we really want you to feel confident in the approach we select so that you can apply it consistently and get the best results.
However, while we do offer different methods with varying levels of parental involvement in the process of your child falling asleep, no method is likely to be completely “cry free.” This is because regardless of which method we use, we are changing the way you respond to your child when they are going through the process of falling asleep, and if they haven’t yet mastered the skill of putting themselves to sleep independently, they may experience some frustration during this process until they do. We will work with you to minimize this as much as possible and will help you apply the approach confidently and consistently to make the process as easy as possible for everyone involved. All the approaches we use are safe and effective when applied appropriately and have been shown to be helpful both in the short and long-term. For more information click below.